Reader Rory Miller asks, “What is the difference between martial artists and BDSM players?” To minimize any confusion, I have compiled this handy reference chart. Title Dominatrix (or, “Mistress”) Karate Sensei (or, “Master”) Costume Exotic, black Exotic, white Essential terminology Violet wand Stiletto Gyaku zuki Neko ashi dachi Fees Pay by the hour(extra charge for… Continue reading Dojo Leader, or Dominatrix? A Field Guide