Martial Development

Martial arts for personal development

Students: Burn The Ships, Not Your Contracts

April 29th, 2007 · 2 Comments

A contractual relationship with your martial arts school could end miserably; former classmates and I know this from experience.  Despite this experience, I believe that the potential benefits of a contract to the student outweigh the risks. 

Before I explain the benefit, let me tell you the tale of an Aikido dojo gone sour. [Read more →]

Conflict Resolution: A Casualty of Non-Violent Martial Arts

March 18th, 2007 · 23 Comments

Symbol of Mars
Shield and spear

To the ancient Romans, the concept of a non-violent martial art would be nonsensical. Their literal definition of martial was “belonging to Mars”, the god of war. Modern usage of the term martial arts, however, is hardly related to military strategy and tactics.

Today, most popular martial arts are practiced without arms. Considering this shift in focus, from immediate and practical skills to more abstract and long-term benefits, it is reasonable to ask whether violent destructive potential is still necessary at all.

Is a non-violent martial art worthy of study? [Read more →]

Tai Chi: Also A Lot Like Dancing

December 6th, 2006 · 3 Comments

It is a common sentiment among Aikido practitioners that their martial art is a lot like dancing.

With all due respect, most Aikidoka have got nothing on these guys. These two videos illustrate the body skills resulting from diligent solo practice, skills which cannot be gained by practicing with a partner in the dojo.


David “Elsewhere” Bernal at the Kollaboration 2001 Freestyle Dance Competition [Read more →]

The Three Craziest People I Met in Aikido Class

November 15th, 2006 · 12 Comments

Martial arts is one of those rare arenas where people show their true personality, without disguise or pretense. Unfortunately, some of these people are real nut jobs!

Here are three short stories of artifice and cowardice, taken from my experience in the gentle art of Aikido. [Read more →]